It’s been a hard morning. I had a message which set me off in a bad mood and on a bit of a rant about Dad and the mess he left me with. Because why be angry with situations that can actually be changed, when you can be angry with […]
grief
Me, Dad (d. 4 Dec 2012), and Catrin (d. 19 Feb 2012) I started writing this post almost 3 years ago, and for reasons now unknown to me, I never finished writing it. On 20 February (2012) I received a text from one of my best friends telling me that […]
Catrin Pickles: 26 May 1991-19 February 2012
I’m getting a bit teed off with people pointing out what a lot of work I’ve got to do with the land. I realise they think they’re being helpful, but what they don’t realise is that they’re one of many people telling me the same thing. And pointing it out […]
Pointing out the obvious
Tell us how your week went by putting together a playlist of songs that represent it. Daily Prompt My week has been one of forgetfulness, awkwardness and general rubbishness. I’ve been forgetting about doing basic things, a haircut appointment, and all the things people rely on me for. I used […]
Playlist of the Week
It was Dad’s birthday a couple of weeks ago. I spent the day at a mounted games competition with the riders he trained previously. He would’ve been very proud of them all and it’s a real shame he can’t be there to see them this year. I took the following […]
Happy Birthday Dad
On Friday morning I decided to finally phone round utility companies and suchlike to tell them Dad had died and that’s why direct debits had been cancelled, to please cancel his account, etc. I expected this to be a fairly easy task. I was quite surprised when I started crying […]
Necessary phone calls
I’m feeling trapped, and it’s stressing me out and causing even more sleep problems. And worst of all, it’s making me angry with Dad, and I really don’t want to feel like that.He’s left me with a situation which, had we planned properly, would have had specific instructions about how […]
Things we should’ve talked about
I’m upset about all the work we still had left to doI’m upset about all that was left to achieve, that can now never be achievedI’m upset about all the things I don’t know about, that he would’ve told me if we knew that time was upI’m angry that we […]
Well if I must talk about it…
Emma Griffin’s birthday has appeared on my Facebook news feed today. 25 years old today. Except she died last week. Took her own life. We weren’t close: I’d only met her a couple of times. More a friend of a friend than anything else. We were chalk and cheese really, […]